Saying goodbye to a good one
Posted: October 25th, 2011, 11:42 pm
Had to say goodbye to my eight year old great dane, Sam, Monday.
I've had a handful of danes over the years but he was special enough I feel compelled to share a few pics and memories.
Most all danes I've owned are goofy loving dogs that would rather lick you to death than chase you down. That wasn't always the case with Sam. When we picked him out he was ornery from the get go... a little growling cuss who wouldn't submit to anyone. Flipped him over and held him down by his belly many a time as a pup to try and force him to submit but it just wasn't in him. I look back at his puppy pictures now, and it's almost impossible to believe such a small pup grew to be such a massive creature.
Around his first birthday, we had a tree fall on our fence and he got out. Traveled 18 miles over 2 weeks before I was able to finally catch him. He had gotten pretty thin by the time I found him, and the two weeks of roughing it led him to at least "acquiesce" to staying at home, though he never willingly submitted his sense of dominance. Until the end if I walked in the yard he would run in front of me. Change directions, and he would make a diagonal move to retake the lead. Didn't matter if I made one lead change or a hundred, he had to be in the lead.
Anyway, after his initial escape it only took a few weeks of good feeding for him to start reaching his prime. He truly was the most strikingly handsome dog I've seen, and that's having spent a lifetime around dogs of all breeds.
He really lacked most of the goofy nature of the breed, with an extremely strong and muscular grace.
By the time he finally quit growing he was a huge dog, big even as danes go, weighing well over 150.
Had to use spike mats on the couch to keep him off. I could keep them on every single day for a year, but forget about them for five minutes and the couch would be occupied. Sometimes it didn't even matter if it was already occupied...
With age, he became a stately old gentle gent and I'm thankful our daughter Grace got to spend her first three years in his protective presence.
In the end, we had to let him go because of a bone tumor that developed on his front right leg. It was just beginning to affect his gait, but the options we faced were waiting for the bone to fracture, amputation and chemotherapy, or letting him go. Having lived a full life for a dane, I let him go while he still had his dignity and I knew he hadn't faced much pain. Stayed with him at the end and he truly went peacefully. Always a hard path to take but I feel pretty strongly it was the right one.
Going to miss you old buddy. Rest in peace, Sam, rest in peace.
I've had a handful of danes over the years but he was special enough I feel compelled to share a few pics and memories.
Most all danes I've owned are goofy loving dogs that would rather lick you to death than chase you down. That wasn't always the case with Sam. When we picked him out he was ornery from the get go... a little growling cuss who wouldn't submit to anyone. Flipped him over and held him down by his belly many a time as a pup to try and force him to submit but it just wasn't in him. I look back at his puppy pictures now, and it's almost impossible to believe such a small pup grew to be such a massive creature.
Around his first birthday, we had a tree fall on our fence and he got out. Traveled 18 miles over 2 weeks before I was able to finally catch him. He had gotten pretty thin by the time I found him, and the two weeks of roughing it led him to at least "acquiesce" to staying at home, though he never willingly submitted his sense of dominance. Until the end if I walked in the yard he would run in front of me. Change directions, and he would make a diagonal move to retake the lead. Didn't matter if I made one lead change or a hundred, he had to be in the lead.
Anyway, after his initial escape it only took a few weeks of good feeding for him to start reaching his prime. He truly was the most strikingly handsome dog I've seen, and that's having spent a lifetime around dogs of all breeds.
He really lacked most of the goofy nature of the breed, with an extremely strong and muscular grace.
By the time he finally quit growing he was a huge dog, big even as danes go, weighing well over 150.
Had to use spike mats on the couch to keep him off. I could keep them on every single day for a year, but forget about them for five minutes and the couch would be occupied. Sometimes it didn't even matter if it was already occupied...
With age, he became a stately old gentle gent and I'm thankful our daughter Grace got to spend her first three years in his protective presence.
In the end, we had to let him go because of a bone tumor that developed on his front right leg. It was just beginning to affect his gait, but the options we faced were waiting for the bone to fracture, amputation and chemotherapy, or letting him go. Having lived a full life for a dane, I let him go while he still had his dignity and I knew he hadn't faced much pain. Stayed with him at the end and he truly went peacefully. Always a hard path to take but I feel pretty strongly it was the right one.
Going to miss you old buddy. Rest in peace, Sam, rest in peace.