We need to see photos of the girl friend first in order to accurately answer your question.
Seriously, it was a tough summer and with the El Nino conditions so far a tough winter. The rain/runoff/unseasonable temps have definitely affected the normal river action. Those that are finding fish are 1. Working the bars and cuts near the mouth 2. Fishing the upper tidal creeks where salinity is higher and water temperatures are more constant.
Your choice of baits and lures will work. You might also try some suspending lures like the Paul Brown mullet, DOA 4-inch swim bait or shrimp/touts sweeping along with the current. The bite can be brief and the fish are scattered. Be in the right spot at the right time and it's on--for a little while. Using solunar tables to predict the ideal windows to fish can be helpful too, but not gospel. Wind, high pressure systems (cold fronts that turn 'em off) and negative low tides are all factors to contend with right now.
Hang in there and keep plugging away. You'll find 'em and the GF will be impressed. By the way, this is also a great time to scout for new spots/hazards that will produce or places to avoid when the action does get better--in about 60+ days.